• Constant Pain
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    Who could have guessed that trying to bring together people with opposing views would generate so much attrition…

  • @wowwoweowza@lemmy.world
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    Thank you. Spot on.

    I’m also seeing bizarre infiltrations of instances by likely paid teams of saboteurs who know exactly how to deFed the federated.

  • @sytone@lemmy.world
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    Is there a federation map somewhere so you can see what instances are federated with each other and which are not?

      • @imaqtpie@lemmy.myserv.one
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        There’s also this site, which gives you more options for filtering, but also seems to throw up errors pretty consistently in my experience.

        https://defed.xyz/

        In terms of figuring out which instances are cool with one another, this site is also quite useful. It’s a web of trust model that a majority of major instances participate in.

        It shows which instances endorse one another, with those instances obviously being federated. It also shows how instances choose to describe/tag themselves, which can give you a better understanding of their general vibe. And it also shows which instances are viewed with suspicion, as they are hesitated or censured by other instances.

        @Martineski pinging you

      • @some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org
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        I don’t give a fuck. I know .ml and .world don’t get along. I know that people disliked hexbear (they are pretty silent, dunno if they changed policies). I want everyone to be here.

    • Übercomplicated
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      Yes! It’s a sad, sad world. It mostly has to do with people’s political opinions on moderators, i.e. “.ml are tankies” and “.world are right-wing normie fascists” or something like that. I have never — literally never — witnessed a .ml mod doing something I thought was bad. I have also seen only one tankie since I joined .ml. I have witnessed some kind of conflict between .world and .ml everytime single time I open Lemmy though. Kind of depressing. I wish we could make less of a deal of an issue that, all things considered, seems pretty small. Ah well, that aside, Lemmy is still great, it will just take time to mature — like all social platforms in their beginnings!

      • @blind3rdeye@lemm.ee
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        Pretty much the same for me. I’ve seen many posts and comments complaining about those kinds of things from .ml and .world; but close to zero of the actual behaviour that people complain about.

      • @mhague@lemmy.world
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        The other day I was on all and ended up reading a comment chain and saw something like “Cuba is a democracy, and for proof just look at the official website of the central party.”

        I found it ridiculous to essentially say “Doug is a skilled electrician, for proof look at this note Doug wrote saying he’s a skilled electrician.”

        This made me a dirty shitlib (I guess the instance I signed up on makes me a liberal). The reaction seemed intense so I checked and it was .ml, so I assume it’s a rivalry thing.

        You’ll see me venting and shitting on eg conservatives but I don’t go around calling people these things. You probably don’t either. But clearly there are users categorizing us into labels and associating us with our instances regardless of merit.

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            I’m not complaining, I’m giving you a relevant example of where these labels come from. It’s .ml and .world and I just don’t have any recent memory of this on .world. I’m sure there’s an example or two, just not recent.

            I was silent because I wasn’t sure what people were saying. I don’t think people who disagree with what I say are necessarily misinformed, or less intelligent, or mean. So it comes down to how I am certain people (including you) know that what is written on paper and what flows in reality are not 1:1 matches. But they tell me something they wouldn’t accept if they were in my shoes.

            Maybe that skepticism sounds ridiculous? But if structure is important and reality can be different and everyone knows this I think it’s odd to see officially meaningless official material in the room. Why can’t we throw it out?


            Edit: imagine we’re pointing out that America is controlled by billionaires and someone links the official site saying “No, it’s still three branches and the will of the people.” You toss it immediately.

            • Cowbee [he/they]
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              To speak of the Cuban system, it’s important to recognize that your skepticism almost certainly originates in perceptions formed by Western media. The structure itself is honest, it’s what they literally have. Whether or not this is sufficient, or working well, is a separate argument, but not the one you made. Your argument seemed to be that we can’t even trust the Cuban government to report on its own legal structures, which is as silly as saying going and looking up US legal code could be fake because we don’t trust the US government.

              What reasoning did you have to distrust the Cuban government on its own structures? What source would have been better and thus more reliable for you? No source is free from bias, but things like legal structures tend to be fairly straightforward. Now, if I were linking an article where the Cuban government was talking about how its democratic structure is the best in the world, that leans heavily into opinionated territory and the bias shines through more clearly. However, again, we were talking about the literal structure, which is evidently democratic.

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                I think I’m mixing up your statement of a basic datum, the way Cuba is written to be, with the idea that it’s indicative of what you’ll likely find. Hence, I was skeptical of the utility of using the written system as meaningful to the statement that Cuba was democratic. Like if people are going to talk about that, I assume it’s not a technicality they are referring to, they are talking about real people living in a real country… so what good is the official parties word on how things are operating?

                Also didn’t even realize you were the same person from the other thread, didn’t mean to show up here and bother you.

                • Cowbee [he/they]
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                  Quick correction: you didn’t bother me, I saw you commenting here about the meme I posted and wanted to set the record straight on my end. I am a different person from the one you initially replied to on this thread, so no worries.

                  As for Cuba, there is a large variance in what people who think Cuba isn’t democratic actually believe. There are many people who think they don’t even have elections, or are otherwise entirely unfamiliar with the Cuban electoral structure. For these people, looking at what the Cuban government says about its structure is massive, there’s really no reason not to trust their stated legal structure as reality just like there isn’t much reason to think US legal code isn’t reality either.

                  Once we are aligned on structure, then we can talk about how well the structure performs, or what hang-ups it may or may not have. Once everyone knows at least what the Cuban system is, then we can discuss how it works in practice. Without evidence of the system not working well, though, all that remains as a negative opinion on Cuba is through the lens of a media apparatus under the control of an Imperialist regime that seeks to recolonize Cuba.

                  Does that make sense? To use your own example, I would trust DPRK legal code to be enforced as it says it is, the effectiveness or net results are what can be debated on.

      • beefbot
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        Starting to really be able to sniff out the AI propaganda bots. It’s not just defending centrism— it’s the LENGTH of their responses.

        They’re always a wall o’ text

        • Cowbee [he/they]
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          I’m pretty active with talking to users here and haven’t noticed any AI bots, though I also do the wall of text bit.

        • Übercomplicated
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          Would you care to elaborate?

          Edit: Well, to be fair, I could have paragraphed a little more effectively.

          • beefbot
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            Hahaha all you gotta do to get a human is respond to one of their walls & call them out on being an AI. Then they go grab a representative to waltz in & make it seem like they’re not

            TheMoreYouKnow.jif

            • Übercomplicated
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              You could at least try to be civil. I am still curious as to what your original reply meant though. Are you calling me centrist? I am communist, how in the world could I simultaneously be centrist? Furthermore, I wasn’t — as far as I’m aware — stating any kind of political opinion with my original reply.

              Please, I beg you, elaborate. I would appreciate that a lot more than jumping to conclusions.

              • beefbot
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                Nope, got the type that encourages or demands endless replies with the goal of wasting my time. Seen it tons of times, straight outta the cia playbook. Can’t fool us 😘

        • @Zink@programming.dev
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          One of the nice things about Lemmy is that people are willing to actually discuss things with multiple sentences and even paragraphs (gasp) rather than it being a fire hose of quips and one-liners.

            • Dessalines
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              The microblogging format is truly awful. I’ve seen professors and incredibly smart writers get into childish feuds with each other, because the format almost encourages it by rewarding dunks and gotchas.

              Forcing people to try to communicate over text without paragraphs, or any way to make themselves more clear, is not a good system.

  • Lenny
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    It kinda pisses me off tbh. It’s like that friend that has to keep telling you how boring the movie is when you’re just trying to sit and watch it. Like, stfu and go away then, stop trying to be a crab on the bucket for the rest of us.

  • @Grandwolf319@sh.itjust.works
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    If instance A and B block each other, can a user on instance C still see all the posts from B and A?

    What worries me is the drop in posts if things fracture.

    • pruwyben
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      Yep. That’s one reason I like the instance I’m on - I can basically see everything, and just block the stuff I don’t want to see.

    • @UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml
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      Given your concern. I would recommend joining a instance with as few defederations as possible and blocking instances yourself. You don’t need a admin to determine what you want or need to see with your experience here on lemmy.

      Block instances/communities/users yourself and make it how you want. Or not. It’s your lemmy, use it how you wish. Peace.

    • @Cysioland@lemmygrad.ml
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      Yes, and even if A blocks B but A posts something on a community from C, then B sees it but A won’t see their comments under it

    • Cowbee [he/they]
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      It would drop some engagement, sure, but either side of the liberal/leftist divide already has enough people to sustain itself.

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        Aren’t liberals and leftists the same thing? Everyone seems to agree that capitalism is bad, the government should provide more social services, our democratic leaders suck (but we should vote for them anyway because republicans are worse), etc.

        Honestly Lemmy seems more like a circlejerk than a divide, the only divide I see is how far we need to go to fix/destroy the system. I don’t think I’ve seen a single conservative voice, which is pretty surprising considering Trump apparently won the popular vote, and I’d expect I’d at least see someone from the other side.

        • Cowbee [he/they]
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          Liberalism is the ideological component of Capitalism. It supports things like private property and whatnot, so Capitalist ideologies typically fall under its umbrella.

          Leftism is a broad anticapitalist categorization of ideologies like Marxism and Anarchism.

          What you describe as “everyone” is the more progressive side of liberalism, but not leftists. Leftists go farther and say that to fix those issues, we need Marxism or Anarchism, generally.

      • @eldavi@lemmy.ml
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        That’s because they feed off each other: the liberals throw lots of shit at the wall in the hopes of driving up their engagement from their large but inactive user base while the leftists engage on their own; this creates an environment where the tiny subset of the most active liberals are left alone w the leftists and theyre predisposed to hate tankies, hence the drama.

    • @Jyek@sh.itjust.works
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      Instance C is unrelated to A and B blocking each other. Why wouldn’t it be able to see posts from either unless it was also blocked?

      • @Grandwolf319@sh.itjust.works
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        Okay but in post A, people from B won’t chime in, and conversely for things posted to B.

        I guess instance C can make posts where both people from A and B can chime in. So would people in instance A be able to talk to people in instance B in the instance C’s comment section? Cause A people don’t want to hear from B people.

        So we would still see less active posts as interactions would go down.

        • @Jyek@sh.itjust.works
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          The users and posts in instance B are invisible to users in instance A. Regardless of if the messages are in instance C

    • @UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml
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      Ideally content is properly cross posted. But no big deal if not.

      Hopefully some day people can view “shitposting” “All” and be able to see shitposting communities no matter their instance. (Minus those they defederate of course)

  • @SoftTeeth@lemmy.world
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    Blahaj can start fostering an inclusive community and stop legitimizing trolls whenever they want drama to stop

    • Cowbee [he/they]
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      Fighting trolls should not be done by invalidating neopronouns, speak to anyone that uses neopronouns and they’ll likely tell you that it quickly cascades into witch hunting.

        • Cowbee [he/they]
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          What do you mean? My name’s not Ada, and I have 2, this one and the Hexbear version under the same name.

              • davel [he/him]
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                It’s just basic maffs, Cowbee:

                1. Any given opinion can only be held by one person in the universe.
                2. Admin Ada @ blahaj and you have the same opinion regarding neopronouns.
                3. Therefore you and Ada incontrovertibly must be the same person.
                • Cowbee [he/they]
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                  Oh, that’s funny. Pretty sure Ada would hate me for being a Marxist, so that’s especially strange.

        • Cowbee [he/they]
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          Again, invalidating neopronouns is a cascading issue that results in witch-hunting and should be avoided.

          • @mortemtyrannis@lemmy.ml
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            Not sure I agree as it seems like black and white thinking.

            I.e. I could imagine a scenario where someone is very obviously/admits to using neopronouns disingenuously and that would break my social contract with them to honour it.

            If I make an assessment of neopronoun usage on a case by case basis I can still avoid witch hunts. It’s similar to how I determine in real life if someone is an asshole or not.

            Another way; I can support a person who I genuinely believe uses neopronouns while denouncing and excluding someone who doesn’t.

            • Cowbee [he/they]
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              It is a very tricky slope. It’s best to never compromise on neopronoun usage even with suspected trolls, they can be discredited without erasing the pronouns.

  • sunzu2
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    Hey drama is part of social media, it drives engagement plus we are hashing out this place should work. Also power tripping mods sub is great, solid discussions

    • davel [he/him]
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      it drives engagement

      Defenestrate corporate media framing. There are no advertisers to market social media “engagement” to. We are not the product. In fact there is no product, just as there is no customer.

      • sunzu2
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        It attracts new blood. People need to be posting and commenting for a place to have a future.

      • @underwire212@lemm.ee
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        Different type of engagement. Not “how lomg you view ads, click rate, view rate, etc” but just posting and commenting.

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        Engagement is just “emotional involvement or commitment”, it’s not necessarily “corporate media framing”. Capitalist platforms abuse this for profit (as they do with everything good), hopefully we can use it to create stronger communities.

  • @Allero@lemmy.today
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    Lemmy.today is one of the most drama-free instances.

    Just go and explore whatever of Lemmy you want.

  • @Elgenzay@lemmy.ml
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    There was a good comment by @pjwestin@lemmy.world the other day on an angry anti-.ml post:

    Before joining Lemmy: “It really doesn’t matter what instance you join, you’ll be able to see content from all over.”

    After joining Lemmy: “So you’ve enlisted in .world, eh? Welcome to the fight, soldier!”

      • NutWrench
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        There’s currently about 600 lemmy instances, in many different countries, and those countries each have different laws regarding the protection of speech. Some of it is also just power-tripping mods or left-wing / right-wing censorship.

        If this is happening to a community you like, you can always switch to the same community in a different instance. Eventually, the “official” community will have the most subscribers and the community with the censorship problems will wither and die.

      • Cowbee [he/they]
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        Lemmy.world is very liberal leaning and defederated from the Marxist aligned instances. Lemmy.ml is more broadly federated and has Marxist mods and admins, and more leftist users in general.

        That’s it. Some users make it a fight.

        • Codeviper828
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          What exactly are instances? I picked one at random that claimed to be “general purpose” because I didn’t know what I was doing (I migrated very recently)

          • Cowbee [he/they]
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            Instances are like islands, with their own cultures and rules. Hexbear.net, for example, is for Communists and Anarchists to hang out and talk about news, gaming, art, etc, while dbzer0 is an instance focused on piracy, AI, and has a techie anarchist slant, Lemmy.world is very much Reddit 2, etc.

            Each of these islands has their own communities, but other islands that are federated can visit these communities. Some instances have strict federation policies like Hexbear.net, which it uses to protect its large trans userbase, while others take the opposite approach like lemm.ee, allowing users to subscribe to any comms across the fediverse they like (that aren’t defederated from lemm.ee, which is generally few).

            I recommend finding some instances you are interested in, and browsing locally to see if it would be a good fit for you. Then, check if other instances you are interested in are federated with it, so you can see what you want when sorting by all. In my opinion, the biggest strength of Lemmy is in having niche userbases on the same general page, that can then interact with other instances.

            • Codeviper828
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              Wait…you can browse instances without making an account??? Whoops, lol, I guess I was a little too eager to get Boost for Lemmy working with an account of my own immediately following Boost for Reddit getting nuked.

              Is there a good way to browse instances? (Particularly through Boost?)

              Also, what are the instances… literally? Like, I’ve never seen social media have groups like this (tied to the account, and separate from the communities, that is)

              • Cowbee [he/they]
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                Yep, you can browse instances just by visiting their sites! It’s how I signed up to the couple I use, not sure how Boost handles it, I just use my mobile web browser (Hexbear has emojis you can use if you use the web version, so I just use that). I am sorry about not knowing Boost specifically, my fiancé uses Voyager.

                As for what instances literally are, they are their own websites and servers, but they can talk to each other, think email. Gmail can talk to protonmail, etc

                • Codeviper828
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                  So, Lemmy is a bunch of separate social media networks that seamlessly* connect to each other? That’s… really cool

        • @YippieKyeAy@lemmy.world
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          I’m pretty progressive leaning and just joined .world because I had no idea what lemmy was and was tired of reddit but I thought it didn’t matter what one you joined since you can see all the other instances correct? Or am I wrong here, like if I go to All it shows pose from all instances? Have been curious why I have seen so much far left as in comrade leftist post so I guess that adds up if .world is where they mainly hang out. But again I still don’t completely understand lemmy but I enjoy it more than reddit

          • Cowbee [he/they]
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            Instances are like islands, with bridges between others. Some instances sever their bridges to other islands so their citizens can’t see any of that content and the other island’s users can’t comment.

            Lemmy.world is defederated from instances like Hexbear.net and Lemmygrad.ml, so you can’t see their comment. Hexbear is mostly an Anarchist and Marxist hangout, Lemmygrad is specifically Marxist-Leninist and takes itself a bit more seriously. Your “All” feed doesn’t show anything from them.

            Instances also matter because some have great local feeds based on niche interests, that’s part of why I like Hexbear and find it great to browse locally. .world is more of a Reddit replication.

            • @gcheliotis@lemmy.world
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              Wait did world defederare from ml after all? I thought it hadn’t. Because people keep complaining about ml and I still see memes.ml and comments from ml users. Or is it one of these things where federation works in ways that are more complex than most of us assume? Is it that the other instances defederated from world? But I’ve seen ml users comment on my comments. Argh federarion is confusing…

        • Fatur_New
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          very liberal leaning and defederated

          For me, “slight liberal leaning” is more appropriate for them